Such nice ideas. I will be using some of them to make the lunchbox for my 3-yo more attractive. I’ll be trying the broccoli tots for sure (he also has dairy allergy, so I will copy the modifications :-)), the english muffin pizzas and and … I think I will make a list to hang in the kitchen. Thanks for the ideas and links!!
To add something: we always like quinoa patties. I use a recipe from a cookbook but this one looks similar:
Spinach & Quinoa Patties in a bowl
and what is always a hit with the small ones is aebleskiver, but I would not know how to do them if you do not have the special pan. An alternative would be Kaiserschmarrn, and it can also be done with apples. I also use recipes from cookbooks for these but you can find others in internet. If not, just tell and I will try to copy the recipe I use here. Have fun with the party!